The Prelude….
The beginning…. “Then the Lord God said, “It is
not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him”
(Genesis 2:18)
There are certain things that we as men just need
a woman for. There are certain voids in
our life that can only be filled by a god-fearing woman. A touch that only a wife can provide that is
forever comforting. A security that our
children are in the best of hands.
This story tells the story of a man that performs
Godly miracles through our Father, but doesn't acknowledge him for all his
blessings that he has received. He has
finally come to a crossroad where money cannot buy him happiness or fix the
problem and he is finally wondering why.
The Story…
There was a doctor that had just about everything
that he wanted. He was the best in the
land for what he did when it came to saving lives and delivering babies, he was
loved by many. But when that doctor
would get to his house, he often noticed that it was not a home. He had someone that he was dating, but the
relationship featured so many ups and downs that he often found himself simply
wanting to give up. Or he actually found
himself by himself more than often. He
really wished and hoped for his significant other to realize what he wanted to
form with her. But for some odd reasons,
she never could see eye to eye with him when it came to certain things.
Well one day the doctor was on his way to
work. As his stepped outside of S-Class
Mercedes, he noticed a guy sitting on a bench outside of the hospital. For some odd reason he approached the guy and
spoke to him. The man spoke back, but as
the doctor turned and walked away, the man utter these words to him, “seek him
first, that he will provided your empty space with the blessings in which you’re
heart so much desires.” The doctor
turned in shock and continued to walk inside of the hospital.
After a crazy shift, the doctor checks-out and
prepares himself for departure. Once he
got outside of the building, he noticed the man was still sitting on the bench.
The doctor approached him and asked him,
“What did you mean by your statement in which you spoke of earlier?” The guy on the bench replied, “Nothing is
free doc, you have to pay the piper.”
The doctor then responded by saying, “Well I have no cash on me, I’d have
to go to a nearby bank to get some.” The
guy says, “Doc for what I am about to tell you, no money can buy. But if you promise me one thing after I tell
you what it is that I have been lead to, that I can pray with and for you, I
will share this information with you.”
The doctor looked in amazement and nods his head yes.
The guy on the bench stands up in front of the
doctor and tells him that you relationship is null and void because you lack
the key thing that will bring it to life; you lack Christ. The same God that guides your hands on the
operation table; blesses you with the knowledge to perform in the manner that
you do; keeps you financially stable the way that you are so that your mind and
heart is always clear, you must let him into your life.
You go to your house after work to a woman that
doesn't even want to spend time with you.
Doesn't seem to ease the pain and void that you have by attempting to be
a life partner. You search for all the
qualities of a wife in a girlfriend that doesn't even know how to be a
woman. She must first too allow God to
be the head of her life in order for you-alls union to be blessed. One thing that you must remember is that God
has placed everyone in our lives for a particular reason. For everything that you sow into people lives
in the hospital as a doctor, I’m talking the grief for those that have lost
someone; the happiness for those that have brought new life into the world, the
joy that a disease has been removed from one’s body. Doc you need a woman, a wife, at home that
understands the man in which she has, your worth, your now ongoing relationship
with God and she understands it is her duty to pour back into you what it is
that you put out every day.
The doctor looks at the guy from the bench as his
eyes begin to water. He asks him, “So I
am not selfish for wanting to spend more time or want to be with in her more
than what I am now?” The guy looks upon
the doctor as says, “God wants for us to all have someone, especially someone
that performs his miracles right here on earth. “
Finally the guy from the bench tells the doctor,
“that emptiness in which you face in your relationship must be filled first and
foremost with a relationship with God.
Once he sees that you’ve accepted him, he will work on everything else
for you. But you also need to allow for
him to send you a woman that understands both how you feel and how you operate,
so that your relationship is not hardship, but something that is prosperous for
the both of you.”
The doctor had his head down and he felt the guy
from the bench place his hands on his head and he began to pray. The doctor begins to weep more because of
were his faith and belief lied with Jesus Christ. How his relationship was nowhere near what he
wanted it to be. As the guy continues to
pray harder and harder, the doctor begins to speak, “father I repent for not
accepting you into my life. Father I
just ask for forgiveness right now.
Father I just ask for a relationship that you will bond through your
strength that no man can break. Father I
just ask for you to send me someone that understands the importance of time,
sacrifice, and communication. Father I
want to know more of you, I want a partner that is just as eager for your love
as I am.”
While the doctor continues to pray, he feels the
guy from the bench hands leave his head.
As he dries his tears and wipes his face, so that he can stand and walk
to his car, he feels a slight breeze.
When he stands up, his significant other is standing in front of him and
she asks him, “Who were you talking to?”
He responds, “Did you not see a man standing over me?” She responds, “No.” And then she tells him that, “I've been
standing here for a second now and I heard your prayer. I want you to know that I want to be your
better half. I want to work on everything that we lack and do it in the name of
Jesus.” The doctor’s heart trembled as
he started to weep again. He grabs his
significant other to give her a huge and begins to walk to his car. But right before he got in the car, he looked
back over to see the bench was still empty, however, a shadow was bending the
corner. The doctor then looked up to the
sky and said thank you Lord, for you know best and I thank you for that angel
in which you sent to speak over me.
The Conclusion...
Men that doctor represents the duties in which we
have to God, our family and our love ones; we have work to do. Ladies we as men need a woman that backs us
and supports us so that we can continue to do the things in which God has
called us to be. No matter if it’s a Doctor,
Writer, Lawyer, Preacher, or whatever.
This story does not represent struggle and taking our women for granted. But it does represent that we are at our best
when our support system consist of you.
-Minister LaCheston T. Moore
